I am having a case of the wedding woes. I am overwhelmed. I am having a moral hangover about spending mula and inconveniencing everyone involved. I have real worries too. Grams is in and out of the hospital. Also, my mom and her friend have been on my heart. Her friend's son unexpectedly passed last Saturday. He was my age. How small do my wedding woes seem? Very very very. Woe is me. Xoxo-BLC
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Dont be sad :(
ReplyDeleteWedding planning can be an emotional roller coaster with highs and lows. I got married right when the economy got bad so I felt guilty asking people to come from out of town and have to spend money. It will be fabulous though, just keep everything in perspective.
ReplyDeleteSweet girl,
ReplyDeleteGet a budget from your parents. They know how much they can spend. Anything over and above that comes from you. Then you are worry free. I love your heart though...it has always been for OTHERS!!!
Was your mom's friend the young guy from Wilmington? So very sad. May God give her a peace that is only from HIM.
Love ya. MUAHHHHH
Lady I am right there you with. I almost had a breakdown last night about honeymoon plans. My mom was stressing me out about where we're going and I was like "I'm still trying to figure out how to pay for the WEDDING I can't think about the honeymoon". Money sucks. Keep your chin up!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you're stressed right now. Chin up. It will get better. Sending lots of good vibes your way!
ReplyDeleteHang in there my dear! I found it was hard sometimes to balance the wedding and the real world too. It will all be wonderful.
ReplyDeletekeepin all that are dear to you in my prayers sweetheart :(
ReplyDeletexoox
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Don't stress about the wedding! I know, easier said than done. Just focus on making it to January 2nd, and it will all be worth it...then you can start stressing about the baby that comes soon after! Kisses!
ReplyDeleteHang in there!! Your wedding will be amazing! And it only happens once!
ReplyDeleteI think this post absolutely sums up why I think you're such a good person: You admit that you have anxiety about things, and then you stop to consider the bigger picture. I think you have a right to have these wedding woes (I wonder the same things myself, though I am not engaged) and I only hope that you realize you DESERVE a beautiful and happy wedding and that others will be nothing but DELIGHTED to help you celebrate your new life with Ale. As for the other things, I'm so sorry that there are some very real challenges affecting you and those you care about. I hope everything gets better soon. Sending love.
ReplyDeleteHaving had quite the summer of weddings, I have watched so many of my girlfriends struggle with exactly what you are going through. I think it's normal though! I think that a wedding is the most wonderful thing in the world, but so very stressful to plan. Then, when life intervenes (I'm so sorry to hear about mom's friend's son. How devastating!) you feel as if your stressors are silly.
ReplyDeleteJust remember, they aren't! Don't feel bad about the wedding being so very important to YOU right now. You deserve that. Just breathe deep and take an evening to relax. No wedding talk, activities, etc. Just relax. That is my very best advice :)